Here are Some Conversational Topics For you to have Happy Relationship
Some times during a discussion either on the phone or when you are spending time together with your partner, you find that you have run out of topics to talk about or discuss. This is not strange at all and could happen to anybody or couple.
A happy conversation could depict a happy relationship. Having conversations can in no way replace communication. These are two different things. Different and both important to make a happy relationship.
A happy relationship can differentiate between a boring or bad relationship from a good or great one. Conversations can help in couples understand each other. Good ones can help them bond… create a great long lasting bond. Couples in a relationship might let topics for real and great conversation slip.
Couples in fresh or new relationships might run out of topics and some times this could translate to a big problem or even leave parties frantically looking for topics to talk about. Again if you are in a new relationship, it may sound rude or even insensitive to ask a lot of questions. These questions may really help you make decisions on the relationship.
In some kind of seasoned relationship, silence may not really mean much or may even be very normal. But then it will be very cool and nice to bring in some colour, laughs, life in to the relationship and this can be done by great conversation. Talking about the right things is what we are going to deal with here.
Conversation and communication has been known to bring couples together. As stated earlier, it brings better understanding of themselves. It makes the chemistry great… really great.
Below are some suggested topics that could really do the magic for you.
-Make arrangements for the weekend…sometimes a fun weekend. Talk about the plans for the coming weekend. It would be exciting and fun. This could even help you both come over a very terrible day and fill you up with enthusiasm. You guys can talk about the weekend plans even if it is still Monday morning.
Having something to look forward to would be a great topic for discussion.
-Pay Compliments. Take time to talk about the points or thing that you admire about your partner. Try as much as possible to let them know how you feel about them. This has been seen to go a long way. Let them know that you appreciate them. Even if it is something that they did last week or some time ago… discuss about it.
-Go ahead and discuss work. It is okay to talk about work. There is always something to talk about of work. Be it about colleagues, a new boss, a new assigned project, a nagging boss etc. There must be a topic from work. This will help understand each other’s professional work life and even ethics. Some times values also.
-Talk about movies and TV shows. This is another topic to talk about. Talk about your favorite shows, movie series and the lot. There is always something new every week or to look forward to. You can discuss expectations or turn out. This could be what you guys love together or individually.
-Talk about food, talk about restaurant. Not all people are passionate about cooking but a lot are food lovers. You can talk about a new food recipe. You could also talk about a new restaurant that just opened and discuss booking reservations. This could really be fun.
-Go ahead and talk about your dreams and aspirations. This is a standard for relationships. It is very advisable for couples to discuss their dreams and aspirations. Discuss your dreams and visions. It is good to let your partner know where you are heading to or intend heading.
This will enhance your understanding of each other and this will also help the other party know how to put in an assisting hand.
-Plan vacations together. Make sure you plan your vacations together. Vacations can be said to be the highlight of the calendar of couples. Especially working couples. This is a great time to look forward to and planning it can be very exciting. Plan vacations together.
-Share your personal interests and hobbies. There is every tendency that your partner will also be interested in the same hobbies or even have same interest as yours.
-Let your friends be known. It is a great point for discussion to know your partners friends. Let them know who you are spending your away time with. This will also help you understand your partner more, with the kind of people they hang out with.
-Try to help your partner out…offer them help. This could be in minor or major chores around the house or outside the house. For this they would be grateful and also love your company.
Sharing and doing stuff together is a sure tendency of drawing couples together.
-Discuss the past. This is a great point. I have taken my time to discuss this in one of my write ups. With this more and more with be know about each other and this is another bonding point.
Let me know if this article has helped you. Good luck,
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