I have found the how we spend our free time goes a long way to help us, if you are in a relationship or outside a relationship (as this is the basis of our discussion). Remember there is a saying… an idle mind is the devil’s workshop.
Let me talk a little from a personal point of view. Most times when am bored I take to my books because I have noticed that those are the times I tend to do some stuff I will ordinarily not do… especially when I am bored. That is the main time I always suggest to people to look out for… ‘Boredom’
Someone once told me that when she is bored she tends to start calling some of her exes. This simply translates that she tends to want sexua!l intercourse at this time. Another friend told me that when he is bored he tends to stimulate himself by hand (do you know what this means?). Another even told me that she resolves to X-rated movies.
How do you spend your free time? Let us consider some tips on how best to spend your free time.
Like I said earlier I Read: Reading is one thing that has help me a lot. I hope i am not sounding too serious. But recently i have not been reading. Been too busy. I can assure you that it is a very effective way out and most times I find my self sleeping off after a little reading. Sleeping is far better instead of doing anything you will later regret.
Look Into Your Daily Routine: Keeping healthy, eating well and exercising regularly has proven to keep my heart steady and my thinking rationalized. You should try it. This will also help you stay out of the hospital. You know as the saying goes… who a man is in not far from what he does.
Let us here what you think on this matter.